Here’s this week’s “Ask The Morning After”:
I have a friend who I met through work. We have worked together for years now and become really close. All this time I have been hearing about her ex boyfriend who fathered her children and is a dead beat who has never paid support or helped with the kids in anyway. I did not grow up here and have only lived in Cape May County for 3 years so it was easy for me to believe her tales of whoa. Having branched out into the community I am meeting more people one of which is her ex and his new wife. I confronted him with what I knew and he not only denied it but then he and his wife showed me court documentation proving the exact opposite and how she has repeatedly taken him to court to squeeze more money out of him. The court papers prove he has never missed payment and she loses every time she takes him back in front of the judge. Sadly her kids know none of this. They rarely see their Dad and hold unwarranted animosity because of all the lies my friend has told. They refuse to go to scheduled visitation. I don’t think I can continue to work with her and have been avoiding contact with her as I feel like another pawn in her game of lies.
Do I call her on it or quit?
Cape May County
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